Stranger what are you so afraid of? .........

Thursday, August 28, 2014


To: Stanger who left a footprint

From: Feeding the fear


Sometimes we’re afraid to love & be loved, this fear may come from a deep routed issue as a small child, or just simply being hurt and deceived from past relationships. Whatever your case may be it affects you, him, her and us in different ways. Some loose hope and can never trust again others will feed off of this fear, but why is that?

Never trust again:

Why is it that some of us loose all hope, our pain and mistrust in people makes us doubt that there’s any good left. We expect nothing but less and never give the benefit of the doubt in “good” in people we forget how it is to love, believe, and trust in someone. We set ourselves up for failure, because the moment we feel like we’re getting to close we pull back, it doesn’t have to be like this but our fear won’t allow us to get any closer.  The “never trust again’s” are left empty and always looking for the next person to fulfill that empty feeling, but it can never be found when we’re constantly searching for it without really wanting it.

Feeding the fear:

   Those who feed off of the fear are those who have been dragged, kicked and tossed around, this is all they know and they will always trust the fear. The fear makes them weak and trustful, we give ourselves with all that we have, and we trust the lies because it’s familiar to us. We hope to modify the “never trust again’s” because we relate to them, we hope that we can come together with our pain and mistrust and fix each other, but instead we’re both left with emptiness & regret!

If you can relate, remember not everyone is out to hurt you! Let go of your past and let yourself be loved because the day you' push away the only good thing in your life someone else will learn to appreciate. Her/him  don't give anyone that chance, a chance of your happiness! Love, live and forgive.


“Loving, trusting and forgiving the FEAR is a vicious cycle”


Thursday, August 21, 2014

 | Left: Lorenzo Middle: Adrian Right: Angel (super tan lol) |

It's never a dull moment with these little ones are around

Today I decided to capture my nephews in their cutest poses, each photo captures their individual personality. 

You know he's trouble when .......

Wednesday, August 20, 2014

A women's curse isn't loving, but it's loving with all that they have. I would never consider a woman to be weak! but when it comes to loving our judgment isn't the clearest, we become weak, dumbfounded & oblivious. In the past I've have had my shares of many frail moments when it comes to love, but over the years I've come to a realization that I no longer have to be weak mined when it comes to men. I have the ability & strength to over come any cocky ass motherf^&$er who comes my way and I now know how to control the situation, to always be two steps ahead and never fail to fall to easily. Control the situation: The number one mistake females make when it comes to to "dating" would have to be playing way to many games, being up front about wanting a relationship dose not make you weak or disparate. It shows your worth & what you're all about, many women won't admit to wanting a relationship from the jump for the simple facts that they think the guy may no longer be interested. If that's the case "F*CK IT & F*CK HIM" why would you wanna be with him anyways, boo its not going anywhere, trust! there is and will be that one guy who's on the same page. Two steps ahead: Sometime men are great at making you feel like your his number one, which means they will play along with the whole relationship idea. Not all men will but same may, watch out for these sneaks! there are many signs & clues that should alert you to drop his ass before you become his next victim 1. Excuses, excuses, excuses; men who seem to always come up with an excuse as to why that can't hang out, call, didn't text and so on and so forth are the type of men who aren't about you. Sorry to say it, but his mind is wandering & mostly likely 95% of his thoughts aren't about you. 2. If he's always adamant about you always coming over to cuddle and watch Netflix, "DON'T DO IT IT'S A TRAP" Men who are never about spending his money on you or just simply never taking you out, he just wants the booty he isn't in it for you. 3. The list goes on on but I'm not going to get into all that, you should all know the shady shit men have done from past experiences! feel free to comment and share your experiences with the rest of us <3 (open discussion anyone?) Falling to easily: ladies always stay on top your game, if you're dating; date! Go on date's don't just settle for one, make them work for it, see who impresses you the most, have fun with it. If you only confine yourself to a single person you're setting yourself up for failure, because you are solely focused on that one individual making it very possible to fall for him. "Lust is a strong drug stay away from it, it won't bring you any good"

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