Wednesday, September 10, 2014

He's just not that into you




Men are very simple its either A or B and nothing in between, but sometimes our complex minds make men seem a lot more complicated than what they are in reality. We get lost in trying to read them and we start to justify their action and over analyze the situation for what it really is. Its very simple ladies he’s either in to you or isn’t.

Respect

The level of respect someone gives to you may be a very strong sign of how much this individual cares about you. If you find that the guy you’re dating doesn’t have a simple courtesy act towards you then he’s just not that into you. Men who are infatuated with women do everything and anything for them, men become an outstanding gentleman for women they care for or are interested in.

M.I.A

When men go “missing in action” it’s typically because they have something to hide. Now when he hasn’t texted you in 4-6 hours or called, it does not mean they are gone M.I.A their just probably busy! Don't get worried. Now if your guy goes 24 hours or days without texting/calling, it may be a sign that his attention isn’t solely being given to just you. I hate to be the barer of bad news, but you are probably sharing your guy with someone else.

Questioning your loyalty

Men who question your loyalty, who seem to have insecurities typically act like this because they’re hiding something. Therefore, they question your every move making you feel frustrated, confused and always having to prove you innocence. Do you really want to be with someone who makes you feel this way?

Picking fights

This is always a red flag, men who constantly pick fights for no reason, reasons you can’t even logically explain yourself. Usually they pick them at the most inappropriate times, like for example you have a date night coming up and they pick a fight and cancel your date night (he’s doing it for a reason). Then later they act like nothing ever happened and make it seem like you’re always out to make him mad. Yea! Sounds familiar?  Be careful with these men they know what they're doing, you should not be getting into it so soon; the begging is always about butterflies, rainbows, confetti and shit. He's doing it to be more available to his other broads!


I know reading this may be difficult if you’re in a similar situation, but its almost a chance to reflect on it and ask yourself, "do I love myself more or do I enjoy always being number two?" You also may find yourself dating men like this because you're probably just not ready to be in a committed relationship. If that's the case, stop dating!! Give yourself a chance; learn to love and take care of yourself before you go rushing into something that isn’t healthy. Secondly, ask yourself if being in a situation like this is worth all the worries and insanity. Putting yourself in these predicaments may be the result of you never find true love. With that said... love yourself first, reflect and move on!


"Love yourself first, reflect & move on"

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